We all know the story: You’ve seen someone’s online or dating app profile and you like what you see.Now it’s time to suss one another out, to see if they’re more than just a pretty face.
If you have a problem with spelling and grammar, that’s fine.
Some people we polled—especially women—don’t take kindly to initial messages that center on their body. “If the first thing a guy says to me is directed at my boobs, I assume that’s all he’s interested in.
No thank you, sir.” A much better approach is to focus in on your shared interests and ask her questions that will give you insight into her personality.
For instance: “I don’t really understand what’s going on in While saying a brief and generic “Hey” or ”How’s your Tuesday going?
” is highly unlikely to intrigue her, going the other way and composing a very long and detailed message isn’t much better.